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A Commentary on Finding Myself in My Late Twenties

Fri Nov 13, 2009, 6:54 AM
Today is my 27th birthday! As of 7:20am I became an individual in her "late twenties". I'm not entirely sure how I feel about this as I am now quickly sliding towards my 30's. However the catch phrase "30 is the new 20" has been thrown around a lot. I think this is partly true. I feel more like an independent adult than I did in my early and mid twenties. My career is really taking off; I'm exploring hobbies I didn't have time for before and I'm taking better care of myself. I joined a gym and am now working towards my weight goals slowly but persistently. I think that by the time I reach my goals I will be in better shape than I have been in my whole life. Well...except perhaps when I was a child and swam/ran/skipped pretty much all of the time!

I no longer have to rely on my parents financially, I have a stable relationship and a good home. I have pets I'm responsible for and food in my fridge (something that didn't happen nearly as often in my early twenties).

I finally feel like my life is coming together. I don't feel any pressure to get married or make babies as I've made it very clear to my family that I'm perfectly content cohabbing and I work with other people's children more than most people see their own kids! Maybe 10 years from now I will feel some pressure to have a child of my own...maybe five years from now even, but right now I'm in a good place in my life and I love it:)

I'm wondering if anyone out there had any sort of "quarter-life crisis"?
I know you've all heard of a midlife crisis right? Well...quarter-life crisis is sort of the same thing. I had mine around the time I turned twenty and here's why:
I was in university and profoundly unhappy and uncertain about my life path. I no longer wanted to be what I had set out to be at 18. I didn't know what I wanted in life; I was single and it seemed like all the people I knew in high school were getting married. The worst part was that my chronological age no longer ended in "teen". I was supposed to be a grown-up now and I had no idea how...it was exceedingly frustrating...but I made it through. It took me until I was 25 to get my life back to where I wanted it to be but two years later I can say that I'm really happy.

On a completely different note: it's Friday the 13th! Has anyone experienced any sort of bad luck? I know the history of the Friday the 13th superstition but how many people out there know it? This is the second birthday I've had that has been on a friday the 13th...the last one was on my sweet sixteen. Let me know if you buy into the superstition or if it's just another day for you!

Blessed Be...

  • Mood: Triumph
  • Listening to: Throw Ya Hands Up by the Stereos
  • Reading: Blood Noir
  • Watching: Paranormal Activity was terrifying
  • Playing: The "do I go to the gym or not" game
  • Eating: nothing yet...breakfast soon
  • Drinking: coffee

Devious Info

  • Current Residence: that I will not share
  • deviantWEAR sizing preference: unknown
  • Print preference: none
  • Interests: photopgraphy, drawing, painting, writing, music
  • Favourite movie: currently, Star Trek
  • Favourite band or musician: Krishna Das, Hawksley Workman
  • Favourite genre of music: New Age, Classic Rock, Indie
  • Favourite artist: whoever is currently inspiring me
  • Favourite poet or writer: Frost, Paolo Coelho, Poe
  • Favourite photographer: all of them
  • Favourite style of art: I don't know yet, I like lots of things
  • Operating System: ...
  • MP3 player of choice: my blackberry...er crackberry
  • Shell of choice: the ones you find on the beach
  • Wallpaper of choice: my current favorite pics
  • Skin of choice: I like my skin...it's fair and freckly and fits me just right
  • Favourite game: wii bowling
  • Favourite gaming platform: wii
  • Favourite cartoon character: Family Guy characters
  • Personal Quote: process over product
  • Tools of the Trade: Canon Rebel XS, various filters, picnik.com, paper, pens, pencils, charcoal, acrylic paints

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:icongeroo-who:
Thanks for the faves and the watch.
:iconphoenix-firedancer:
welcomes

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The Goddess is alive and Magick is afoot...
:icongeroo-who:
I really appreciate you. You are valued and appreciated as a person. I also really get what you spoke of perfection driven parents. I also get what of your own artistic nude experience. I've tried it for similar reasons. My fuck off statement really.
:icongeroo-who:
Hi Jonathan here.

You knew me formally as IamIron and then Iron-Bee. Well I have finally set up the right roots and started a new gallery. I hope all is well in your world. I have missed you. Glad to see your back.
:icongeroo-who:
Thank you for the watch.

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